She Was The One They Needed
When Winston Churchill married Clementine Ogilvy Hozier, most saw just another young woman from the upper classes. But Clementine was a different thing altogether. She came from a dysfunctional household filled with infidelity, unsavory characters and sometimes even a shortage of food. But these obstacles made Clementine the strong and compassionate woman that Britain needed standing beside the Prime Minister. Especially as they faced their darkest hour and their most formidable enemy.
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1. She Didn’t Know Her Father
Clementine Churchill was born Clementine Ogilvy Hozier on April 1, 1885, in London, England. Dad was apparently sterile, so speculation went down to who her biological father was. Her mother, Lady Blanche, had numerous infidelities, so narrowing down the suspects was difficult. Clementine had to be content not knowing who her daddy was.
But sometimes the truth makes things even worse.
2. There Was One Likely Suspect
Clementine had a sister and twin brothers. Of course, everyone gossiped about who had fathered them. What most people finally agreed on is a little stomach-churning. They think the father of all the kids was one man. Blanche’s sister’s husband: Bertram Freeman-Mitford, who went by Bertie and had also fathered two children with a geisha in Japan.
Well, this dysfunctional family couldn't carry on like this for long.
3. The Family Had A Shake-Up
Clementine’s father, Sir Henry Hozier, had turned a blind eye to his wife’s numerous affairs. But then that all changed. When Clementine was six, Hozier walked right in on Lady Blanche with one of her boyfriends. The couple separated, and it looked like Clementine's parents were moving toward a divorce.
This didn’t quite happen.
4. She Had An Evil Aunt
Of course, Hozier wanted a divorce, but when he went to the court to get one, all of his own infidelities came to light. There was no divorce, and these two cheaters were stuck with each other. Instead, Hozier went to live with his sister, Mary, and Clementine and her sister Kitty eventually ended up there too. Aunt Mary was a spinster who believed in corporal punishment, and a whip was her weapon of choice.
It looked like Clementine was in for a childhood of pain.
5. He Sent Her Away
Clementine's dad soon grew tired of caring for his daughters, and he devised a way to get them out of his sight. He hired a governess and set up home for the kids in north London. Now remember, neither Clementine nor her sister Kitty were biologically his. So, when he came up with a plan to have them raised elsewhere, he didn’t exactly break the bank.
Clementine and Kitty didn’t know what to expect from this strange new arrangement.
6. She Lived Like A Poor Person
So, Clementine and Kitty were living with a governess, but this was not a glamorous setup at all. The girls had to help with the housework—sometimes for many hours a day. Also, they often lacked food. They lived this miserable, but character–strengthening, existence...and it had a profound effect on Clementine.
7. She Learned To Care
While living with the governess, Clementine became "afraid, skittish and prone to crying”. But there was a silver lining to her miserable existence. As a person from the upper class, it helped her to feel compassion for people of the lower classes. This would help her in her future political life.
But looking at it through her eyes, it was just plain hard. Luckily, Mom was about to come to the rescue.
8. It Wasn’t A Healthy Environment
Mom swooped in and rescued Clementine and Kitty, and brought them to a home with their twin brothers. Sadly, this was not a harmonious household. Because Lady Blanche often lacked cash, they frequently fled their creditors. Also, Mom was still entertaining her “gentleman callers”, which brought even more instability to the family.
But there was something else that was unhealthy. Something specifically about Clementine.
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9. She Was Not The Favorite
It seemed pretty obvious that between Clementine and her sister, Kitty was Mom’s favorite. Blanche thought that Clementine was some useless combination of not too pretty and not too bright. Kitty became the star of the family, and Clementine was just a supporting player. As a child, it made her tearful; as an adult, it would give her strength.
Soon, it would be necessary to move again. This time to a new country.
10. They Needed To Move
Lady Blanche was getting a reputation in the neighborhood for being promiscuous. Sometimes it branched out to include being downright mad. What M
om realized was that she needed a change of scenery. One that was away from her judging neighbors and could help her save a little cash.
While the south of France might have sounded more luxurious, Mom’s budget could only get them to the north.
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11. She Lived In France
When Clementine was 14, Lady Blanche took her and her siblings to the north of France for some time on the coast. Dieppe was the name of the town, and Clementine got down to her studies. She also ran the household. Sadly, when Clementine went shopping for food, she often had to ask for it on credit. You see, Mom kept herself busy losing what little money they had at the casino.
But there were worse things happening.
12. She Fought For A Man
Mom got back on her promiscuous ways and started dating an artist named Walter Sickert. The problem was that Sickert was also dating the woman who owned the fish market in town. Apparently, Mom and the fishmonger got into fights that occasionally involved a flying fish or two.
But there was something quite frightening about the man of Lady Blanche’s obsession.
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13. They Met A Scary Man
Sickert was certainly an odd character. He seemed preoccupied with painting pictures of Jack the Ripper. More specifically, his bedroom. But it gets weirder. Many believe that Sickert was either an associate of the Ripper or maybe even the Ripper himself. Weirdly enough, Clementine later confessed that she was also oddly attracted to this frightening character.
Clementine survived the Ripper, but soon another dangerous man would come into her life.
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14. She Almost Got Taken
Clementine’s non-biological father, Hozier, decided he wanted to see his younger daughter and headed off to France to find her. When he arrived in Dieppe, he invited her to lunch, and Lady Blanche insisted that she go. As it turned out, Hozier had a plan. He wanted to take Clementine back to England. Whether she wanted to go or not.
Clementine went to lunch and had no idea what was in store.
15. She Needed Courage
In the middle of lunch, Hozier made it clear to Clementine that she was coming home with him. Clementine certainly didn't want to return to the whip-yielding aunt Mary, but she was young and shy, and it was hard to deal with her angry and determined father. She found the courage to tell him no.
But then things went from bad to worse.
16. She Had To Fight
Yes, Clementine had found the courage to say no, but that didn't totally put Hozier off. He quickly dismissed Clementine’s maid, Justine. He then put his body between Clementine and the door of the restaurant. Clementine was alone with her father, and it looked like she would be leaving France and returning to her miserable existence with aunt Mary.
But something surprising happened.
17. She Rose To The Occasion
Something stirred inside Clementine, and she found the courage to fight back. She waited for her father to reach for his cigar, and she made a dramatic run for the door of the restaurant. Luckily, Justine was waiting for her, and the two returned safely home. Overcoming obstacles like these were shaping Clementine into something more than a scared girl who was prone to crying.
But there was one more hardship coming her way.
18. She Lost One
While still in France, Clementine’s sister Kitty got typhoid. To devote her time to helping her favored daughter recover, Mom sent Clementine and the twins back to her sister’s place in Scotland. Sadly, Clementine would never see her sister again. She passed the following spring, at just 16 years old.
But Clementine still had to think about her own future.
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19. She Excelled
Following the loss of her sister, Clementine ended up in grammar school. This was not the kind of place you would usually find someone from Clementine’s class. But her life seemed to be full of being in odd places. Clementine excelled anyway. The headmistress, Miss Beatrice Harris, saw great potential and recommended a university.
But this was just one more break that Clementine would not get.
20. She Had To Find A Husband
Clementine's mother was not on board with university. With her favorite daughter gone, Blanche focused on Clementine. It was time for her to find a husband, and Blanche began the necessary preparations. Clementine had gained confidence at grammar school. But still, she had to be wondering if she would be a hit with the men or a miss.
21. She Knew What She Wanted
To Clementine’s surprise, the men lined up for a chance with her. But Clementine herself felt undecided about any of them. She actually became engaged three times, twice to the same fellow, but she always ended it. She was looking for intelligence and passion, and none of the men on offer filled that bill.
Maybe, on some level, she knew that destiny had someone much more important in store
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22. She Had A Meet Cute
When she was 19, Clementine attended a ball put on by the Earl and Countess of Crew. Here she had a short encounter with 30-year-old Winston Churchill, who at the time served as a Liberal MP. The meeting was short and sweet, but Churchill noticed Clementine’s beauty.
But what did Clementine think?
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23. He Was An Eligible Bachelor
Most of us have a pretty clear picture of what Churchill looked like, but it’s usually him as an older man. In his youth, Churchill was a bit of a star for his wartime experiences. He also had a certain amount of swagger about him. He was smart, confident and a rising political star. He may not have been excessively handsome or had oodles of cash, but he was an eligible bachelor.
This could be the guy Clementine was hoping for.
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24. They Met Again
Whether it was by chance or design, four years later, Clementine found herself seated next to Churchill at a dinner party. The two had an animated and political conversation. In addition to her beauty, Churchill now saw that she was smart and had a good personality. They started dating and exchanging letters.
Things were getting serious, and it was time for a conversation with Mom.
25. She Had A List
Lady Blanche likely had a list of things she wanted her daughter’s husband to be. He should be handsome, eloquent, athletic, have a title and hopefully be a member of the very rich and aristocratic. As it turned out, Churchill had none of these things. But there was something about him.
To Clementine’s surprise, Mom thought he was perfect for her daughter.
26. It Was A Romantic Moment
On August 11, 1908, Churchill was at a house party at Blenheim Palace. He’d gone out of his way to have Clementine invited as well. He suggested a walk, and Clementine agreed. When it began to rain, they found shelter in the Temple of Diana, which stood near a lake. In the small building, with the rain pouring outside, Churchill proposed.
Clementine said yes, and her life immediately changed.
27. They Settled
Clementine married Winston Churchill on September 12, 1908, at St Margaret’s, Westminster. They made time for a honeymoon in Italy and then settled down. Their home was at 33 Eccleston Square, and the following year, they welcomed baby Diana into the household.
But Clementine had no thoughts about being a stay-at-home mother.
28. She Sent Him Away
During WWI, Churchill had made a mess so bad that they called it the Gallipoli Disaster. Clementine knew she had to do something as damage control. Her husband decided to volunteer at the Western Front, and her advice was to stay a long time. This gave Clementine a chance to get more involved. She took over for Churchill while he was gone.
And she had her own projects too.
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29. She Fed The Workers
When WWI began, Clementine Churchill knew she needed to help in some way. Her first job was about food. She worked for the YMCA and made sure that the munitions workers had a canteen. In 1918, they gave her a title: Commander of the Order of the British Empire.
Around this same time, a tragedy occurred.
30. She Lost One
In addition to her first child, Diana, by 1918, she’d had three more. Randolph was born in 1911, Sarah in 1914 and Marigold in 1918. Sadly, Marigold was not long for this world. She passed at age two due to sepsis. This loss devastated both Clementine and Churchill. They buried her in a very private ceremony.
But Clementine had little time to mourn. Her husband needed her.
31. She Took His Place
In 1922, there was a general election in the UK. Churchill should have been out there campaigning, but something got in his way. He had his appendix removed. In his place, Clementine traveled to Dundee and campaigned for him. But her duties as a mother were also calling.
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32. She Got Her Daughter Ready
It was soon time for Clementine Churchill to get her daughter ready to come out as a debutante. Clementine had already prepared Diana by giving her time to live in Paris to broaden her horizons. Once she was back, it was time for the endless parties in order to meet eligible bachelors.
Sadly, things didn’t go as planned.
33. She Had To Step Down
Traditionally, it is a mother who accompanies her daughter to present her to court. Unfortunately, Clementine fell ill before the season started, and she had to let Churchill replace her. To make matters worse, none of the men on offer seemed to be able to hold a candle to Diana’s charm and intelligence. Especially when she compared them to dear old dad.
But there was a silver lining.
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34. They Bonded
Clementine Churchill did recover and attended some parties, but the season was a bust. Diana was still single. The good news was that Clementine now had time to spend with her daughter. They read books, went to galleries and traveled together. During this special time, Diana noticed something unusual about her mother.
35. She Was Better In Every Way
While Clementine was travelling with Diana, Diana wrote a letter to her father. In it she expressed surprise that when she was away from home, her mother was a “completely different person”. She was “carefree and better in every way”.
But things were not always so rosy between Clementine and Diana.
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36. She Was Unkind
When Clementine Churchill was growing up, she had the strong feeling that her mother favored her sister Kitty. Well, Diana believed that Clementine also favored her sister, Sarah. At one dress fitting, Clementine made the thoughtless remark that it was much easier to fit Sarah than Diana. This was because Diana was a little plump and felt horrible about it.
It could be that this treatment from her mother led Diana to a miserable life.
37. It Didn’t Go Smoothly
Coming out as a debutante didn't really go that smoothly for Clementine’s oldest daughter, Diana. It seemed that Diana lacked confidence. She ended up marrying twice and divorcing both of them. We’ll soon see that Diana Churchill was going to suffer much more than just two divorces.
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38. Life Wasn’t Easy
The post-WWI life for the Churchills was difficult. Churchill had so many great qualities, but he also had some bad ones. He could be grumpy, depressed and sometimes used the bottle to medicate these issues. Also, neither of them really had much money, so Clementine was busy keeping the people they owed money to happy, or at least not on their doorstep.
A break came for Clementine with an unusual invitation.
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39. She Set Sail For Adventure
With WWI well behind her, Clementine Churchill took a trip without her husband. In 1934, she boarded a yacht belonging to Lord Moyne, and they set sail for exotic locations like Borneo, New Caledonia and New Hebrides. The reason for the trip was to catch a Komodo Dragon for the London Zoo.
But Clementine was going to catch something else.
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40. She Met A Guy
Of course, there were others aboard the yacht, and one that caught Clementine’s eye was Terence Philip. Many believe that Clementine’s marriage to Churchill was suffering, and maybe this exotic trip was a way to give her some breathing space. The handsomeness of art dealer Terence Phillip wasn’t helping. This man, seven years younger than her, left her breathless.
It was a small boat, and the weather was stiflingly hot. Anything was possible.
41. She Received An Unusual Gift
It’s not clear exactly what occurred between Clementine and Terence. What we do know is that when they parted, he gave her a pink Bali dove. It didn't live long, but back at home, Clementine gave it a proper burial. She put it under a sundial and left this inscription: “Here lies the Bali Dove. It does not to wander too far from sober men. But there’s an island yonder, I think of it again.”
Clearly, this had been an important event, but Churchill needed his Clementine more than ever.
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42. She Was Indispensable
As it turned out, Churchill could not manage without Clementine. Their country house caught fire, some servants claimed they would quit, and his enemies were closing in around him. Clearly, he’d missed her, and this gave both of them an insight into how important Clementine was.
Next, Clementine and Churchill would be facing the problem of the century.
43. They Saw A Danger
Churchill was spending a lot of his time worrying about what was happening in Germany. The thing was, no one seemed to share his anxiety. No one except Clementine Churchill. Together, they could see the writing on the wall. This Third Reich thing looked dangerous, and they had to do something about it.
44. The Faced An Enemy
As history has taught us, Clementine and Churchill were right to be afraid. Suddenly, Europe was once again in an international battle. Britain entered WWII in 1939, and appointed Churchill as Prime Minister in 1940. Clementine and her husband were about to take on one of history's most formidable enemies.
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45. She Saw A Need
Of course, we know that Churchill, with Clementine at his side, was able to defeat Germany and restore order to Europe. Clementine got her own praise. For her work ensuring that Russians got warm clothes and medicine, she received the Order of the Red Banner of Labor. This was an award from Joseph Stalin himself.
Luckily, Clementine passed on her charitable nature to one of her daughters.
46. She Needed Help
Clementine’s oldest daughter Diana, became involved in the Samaritans charity. This organization is still active today, and they try to help people who are considering ending their lives. Tragically, Diana was in need of their help. On October 20, 1963, she took an overdose of barbiturates and ended her own life.
Less than two years later, Clementine would face another serious loss.
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47. She Lost Him
In June 1953, after a series of minor strokes, Churchill had a serious one. They agreed to keep this a secret. Churchill eventually retired, and then on January 24, 1965, another stroke ended his life. He was 90 years old. Clementine Churchill had been with her husband for almost 60 years. Now at the age of 80, she was going to have to see what her new life looked like.
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48. She Got A Title
Just a few months after she lost her husband, Clementine Churchill gained a title. She was now Baroness Spencer-Churchill of Chartwell. This meant she could participate in the life of the parliament. Sadly, she was growing deaf, and this became difficult. Her golden years were ahead of her, but she wasn’t about to get a break from more tragedy.
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49. He Was An Embarrassment
Clementine’s only son was Randolph Churchill. He inherited his father's name but not his discipline. Randolph had an unsuccessful political career, but excelled as a journalist. Unfortunately, Randolph and his parents didn't always get on well. Many believe that Clementine had “cool relations” with Randolph. She had considered him an embarrassment to the family. Sadly, his compulsion to drink led him to an early grave. He passed in 1968, at only 57 years old.
Clementine Churchill had outlived her husband and most of her children. There was one more obstacle to overcome.
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50. She Wasn’t Rich
Sadly, Clementine’s later years found her struggling with finances. Her pension didn’t quite cover her expenses, and she had to do what she had to do. Churchill had been a painter and, sadly, Clementine had to sell some of his precious artwork just to make ends meet.
On December 12, 1977, Clementine Churchill had a heart attack and her life came to an end. She was 92 years old.
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