49. He Had His Personal Demons
Just months into their new marriage, Urban revealed that he had a disturbing dark side. Kidman realized that Urban had a destructive substance issue. It was a horrible period of their life together, and the already-fragile Kidman was pushed to the edge by the devastating revelation.
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50. She Helped Him Through It
Luckily for Urban, Kidman wasn’t willing to give up on him. She decided to stage an intervention for her new husband.
He listened, and immediately checked into rehab. The news made it to the tabloids, but Urban got through the program, and has reportedly been sober ever since.
51. He’d Be Screwed In More Than One Way
There may be more than one reason why Urban has been able to keep himself in check. Kidman and Urban have a pre-nup agreement that for every year of marriage, Urban is eligible for $640,000—however, if he relapses at all, in any way, that entire part of the contract becomes null and void. If he were ever to touch an illicit substance, not only would he lose Kidman—he’d lose a whole lot of money.
52. She Finally Had Kids
After her struggles to conceive when she was with Cruise, Kidman was ecstatic when she finally became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter with Urban.
They named their baby girl Sunday Rose in 2008. Hoping to avoid another risky pregnancy, Kidman and Urban had another child via gestational surrogacy in 2010. They named her Faith Margaret.
53. She Lost Someone
In the midst of life with her growing family, Kidman suffered a devastating loss. In 2014, her father suddenly passed of a heart attack while visiting her sister Antonia in Singapore. The Kidman family’s nightmare didn’t end there. Less than a year later, Antonia’s ex-husband and the father of her four children also suffered a heart attack and passed suddenly.
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54. They Had a Huge Scare
Losing two important members of the family to heart attacks was horrific—but their ordeal continued. In 2016, Kidman’s mother Janelle was rushed to hospital with a suspected heart attack. Luckily, Kidman’s sister was visiting at the time and was able to care for Janelle, who later recovered.
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55. They’re Never Apart
There’s one thing that the marriages between Kidman and Cruise and Kidman and Urban have in common. It's not just the constant tabloid rumors about divorce.
When Kidman and Cruise wed, they vowed to never spend more than a couple of weeks apart from each other.
This is a vow that Kidman also adheres to in her marriage with Urban. She considers it an extremely important part of their relationship.
56. She Has Wandering Lips
In 2017, Nicole Kidman made headlines again when she was seen kissing a man on the lips at the Emmys. That man was most definitely not Keith Urban.
Granted, the man was her Big Little Lies co-star Alexander Skarsgard. It was right after Skarsgard won an Emmy, and Urban was standing right beside her. Still, some people found it strange that Kidman congratulated Skarsgard with a full-on kiss.
When asked about the incident on The Graham Norton Show, Kidman protested, "I kissed my husband too"! She continued, "I did kiss [Skarsgard], but you gotta understand, I did everything with Alex [while on set]". She then confirmed, "I've got an amazing, supportive, gorgeous husband who I love more than anything in the world".
57. She Suffered a Tragic Loss
In the early 90s, everything was going great for Kidman.
She was still in the honeymoon phase with Cruise and was in demand in Hollywood. Things got even better when she found out that she was pregnant—but sadly, tragedy was lurking around the corner.
Kidman suffered from an ectopic pregnancy and lost the baby. She kept what happened a secret until after her divorce from Cruise.
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58. They Were Listening
In the months and years immediately following Nicole Kidman's divorce from Tom Cruise, the tabloids often blamed Scientology for the famous couple's split.
After all, it had been a rocky start for the marriage due to Kidman's psychologist father and apprehension about the "religion". As the years went on and Kidman and Cruise spent more time together, adhering to their promise to spend very little time apart, Scientology higher-ups became confused that they were losing their grip on Cruise.
David Miscavige hired Marty Rathbun, then a senior exec at the Church of Scientology, to keep an eye on the situation.
In turn, Rathbun hired notorious private investigator Anthony Pellicano to spy on Nicole and tap her phone. After Rathbun left the church, he revealed that her phone had been tapped without her knowledge. And when Cruise filed the divorce papers, Miscavige was thrilled that Kidman, who he perceived to have been "dragging" Cruise away from the organization, was gone.
59. She Lost More Than Just Cruise
During her marriage to Cruise, Kidman had claimed that her religion was a little bit of everything.
She said there was a lot of Catholicism, some Buddhism, and even some Scientology. Following the divorce, she distanced herself from Scientology—and it led to devastating consequences. Kidman’s adopted kids with Cruise, Connor and Isabella, are both very active Scientologists. In recent years, sad rumors have abounded about their relationship.
60. She Lets Them Do What They Want
It’s been claimed that her kids (or the Church of Scientology) have branded Kidman a “suppressive person” following her divorce from Cruise, and she hasn’t been seen in public with either of them for years, leading many to believe that they’re estranged. For her part, Kidman has defended her kids’ decisions, saying that they’re adults and that they’re allowed to make their own choices.
Sadly, though Connor and Isabella are now adults, they don't seem to have reconciled with Kidman.
Neither Kidman nor Cruise attended Isabella's wedding, but Connor lives in a Scientology community in Clearwater, Florida.
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61. She May Be Single Again
In June of 2025, Kidman shared an Instagram post wishing Urban a happy 19th wedding anniversary—so fans were shocked when, just three short months later, it was reported that Kidman had filed for divorce, citing "irreconcilable differences". And as more details came out, it seemed as though the news wasn't quite as left-field as it originally seemed.
Nearly a month earlier, at the beginning of September, Kidman and Urban had signed a document regarding custody of the two daughters they share together, with Kidman taking on 309 days a year with the girls and Urban, 59 days.
Just a few nights before the papers were signed, Urban changed the lyrics to one of his songs, removing a reference to Kidman and replacing it with the name of his guitarist, Maggie Baugh.
It seemed like it was done for fun—but when the news came out, the change left fans wondering what they'd witnessed.
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