35. He Couldn't Shake His Mommy Issues
One of Elvis's bodyguards, Alan Fortas, provided some insight into his client's interesting preferences: "Elvis needed someone to baby more than he needed a sex partner. He craved the attention of someone who adored him without the threat of sexual pressure, much as a mother would." Ah yes, mommy issues strike again. But even though he came up short behind closed doors, Elvis certainly delivered on stage.
36. He Made Them Scream
Elvis's concerts were nothing short of a riot. Women fell apart in the audiences, overcome with an unrivaled fanaticism for this dreamy rock 'n' roll star. In fact, his music marked a definite shift, ushering the controversial rock melodies and performances into mainstream culture. Historians often compared Elvis's influential work, and the "pop craze" he sparked, to the careers of Glenn Miller and Frank Sinatra.
But it's safe to say, that Ol' Blue Eyes didn't appreciate this comparison.
37. He Infuriated Frank Sinatra
Okay, so when I say Frank Sinatra despised Elvis, I mean he absolutely loathed everything about him, pretty much squashing the rock star beneath the heel of his shiny, patent shoes. In his opinion, he thought rock 'n' roll was "brutal, ugly, degenerate, vicious...It smells phoney and false. It is sung, played and written, for the most part, by cretinous goons...This rancid-smelling aphrodisiac I deplore."
Sinatra's opinions were...deliciously brutal, to say the least. But what was Elvis's reaction to this blatant callout?
38. He Had The Perfect Comeback
Elvis took the gentlemanly route and pretty much slathered Sinatra in compliments and kindness, while expertly inserting his differing opinion: "I admire the man. He has a right to say what he wants to say. He is a great success and a fine actor, but I think he shouldn't have said it...This is a trend, just the same as he faced when he started years ago."
It's safe to say that with his growing success, Elvis had every reason to shun the haters and take the high road...and sometimes he did this quite literally.
39. He Discovered A Dangerous Pastime
During his stint in the army, Elvis started to delve deeper into the world of drugs. He joined up in 1958, hoping to be treated like any other soldier. While stationed in Friedberg, a sergeant offered him some amphetamines...and they totally blew his mind. He was besotted with their effects—"practically evangelical about their benefits." But that wasn't all.
40. He Took His First Step Toward Addiction
The drugs seemed to be the perfect medicine. They helped with stamina and weight loss, and because most of his friends were partaking, Elvis didn't think twice about indulging. This, however, was an incredibly slippery slope, and as we'll see later, he raced toward it like a kid running full-throttle toward a muddy slip-n-slide. The consequences? Absolutely tragic.
41. He Lusted After An Underage Girl
But besides drugs, Elvis discovered something else in Friedberg. He also found the love of a lifetime—Priscilla Beaulieu. Granted, their meet-cute wasn't so much romantic as it was creepy. After all, Elvis was 24 and Priscilla was only 14. Yikes. It all began one fateful November evening in 1959. A service member invited Priscilla to meet the singer, and when she arrived on his doorstep wearing a prim, little sailor dress, Elvis couldn't look away...
42. He Tried To Win Her Over
Although Priscilla told Elvis that she was only in the ninth grade, this information didn't phase him in the slightest. In fact, it may have attracted him even more. As the night wore on, he made it his mission to impress her, serenading her with songs like "Are You Lonesome Tonight?" and batting his big blue eyes at her. Naïvely, Priscilla thought this was going to be a one-time thing. She was terribly mistaken.
43. He Wanted Absolute Control
Here's where the creepy part kicks in. Elvis's attraction to little Priscilla had a lot to do with the similarities he noticed between her and his mother. (Gladys strikes again) But that wasn't even the worst part. He also told his friend Rex Mansfield that Priscilla's youth was especially desirable—she was "young enough that I can train her any way I want."
And so began one of the most dysfunctional relationships in music history.
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44. He Seduced Her
After arranging a second meeting with Priscilla, Elvis got down to brass taxes and made his intentions known. He whisked her up to his room for a private interlude where they shared a kiss (but nothing more). After he'd taken her out four more times, Priscilla's parents couldn't deny their reservations about their daughter dating a much older superstar.
It was time to meet the parents, and if he wanted to keep seeing his underage girlfriend—he had to pass the test.
45. He Charmed His Way Into Her Life
To appease Priscilla's parents, Elvis cranked up the charm and put on his best gentlemanly facade. When her father asked him why he was interested in his daughter, Elvis had the perfect response: "Well, sir, I happen to be very fond of her. She’s a lot more mature than her age and I enjoy her company." But their relationship was far from innocent, and from the very beginning, it grew out of a toxic foundation.
46. He Offered Her Drugs
Throughout his time in Germany, Elvis dominated Priscilla's entire existence. He was all she could think about, and soon other aspects of her life began to suffer. Most notably, she fell behind in school because of exhaustion and her preoccupation with her new beau. Elvis, of course, had just the remedy for her and offered some special little pills to help her "stay awake."
Although she refused him initially, her dance with drugs was far from over.
47. He Never Slept With Her
Elvis had to keep his relationship with Priscilla on the down-low because it was literally not permissible for him to be romantically involved with a minor. Even Elvis knew that he was doing something wrong...When Priscilla tried to sleep with him, he told her "You're just too young." By 1960, his time as a soldier had run its course. It was time to return to a life of fame and recognition.
Moving back to L.A. meant leaving his new flame behind. But even as they went their separate ways, the tumultuous tale of Elvis and Priscilla had only just begun.
48. He Nursed An Undying Flame
For the next two years, Priscilla devotedly sent letters to Elvis, slipping her correspondence into pink envelopes so that it wouldn't get lost in the flurry of his fan mail. By 1962, the star set to work, persuading Priscilla's parents to allow her to cross the ocean for him. Once again, his charm paid off, and nearly two years after parting, Elvis and Priscilla reunited in Los Angeles.
When Elvis decided to take her with him to Las Vegas, it seemed like a fairytale—but it was actually a nightmare.
49. He Groomed Her
Let the grooming begin. With Priscilla at his beck and call, Elvis now had ample time to start molding her into the perfect woman. First of all, he plied her with sleeping pills and amphetamines to ensure that her schedule matched his. Secondly, he began curating her wardrobe for her, selecting more mature outfits that tickled his fancy. But it didn't end there.
50. He Had Serious Control Issues
Elvis changed everything about Priscilla, never letting her make her own decisions. He controlled her hair and her makeup, and soon he wanted her with him permanently. Once again, he appealed to her parents, asking them to let Priscilla finish high school in Memphis and implying an overarching plan to marry her one day. As always, his wish was granted.
51. He Made Her Into A Doll
By 1963, Elvis and Priscilla were comfortably settled at Graceland—an 18-room monstrosity that the star had purchased when he was 22. There was no escape. He provided both pills and constant instruction, and his little Pygmalion project became more and more sinister. Elvis fashioned Priscilla into a mirror image of himself.
He capped her teeth, corrected her posture, dyed her hair black, gave her a dramatic pompadour, and even color-coordinated their clothes. It was terrifying.
52. He Put A Ring On It
Later on, Priscilla referred to herself as "Elvis's living doll, to fashion as he pleased" while outsiders called her a "live-in Lolita." To make matters worse, there were no brakes installed on this messed-up ride. In 1967, Elvis took things to the next level and made Priscilla his bride. The night of their wedding finally broke their string of sexless years, and the two of them slept with one another for the very first time.
But if you think marriage improved their off-kilter dynamic—then buckle up: it's all downhill from here.
53. He Didn't Want To Be A Father
Priscilla got pregnant almost immediately after marrying Elvis. Unfortunately, the star wasn't exactly stoked to be a father. In fact, he mainly worried about how a baby might affect his career. When Priscilla was only two months away from giving birth, he decided he wanted a trial separation. This fickle-hearted King didn't quite know what he wanted.
54. He Had Some Bedroom Issues
By the time Elvis welcomed his baby girl Lisa Marie into the world, he and Priscilla were back together, trying their best to make it work. But Elvis had yet another quirk up his sleeve: He had no desire to sleep with his wife now that she'd given birth. Weirder still, Priscilla wasn't even surprised, later noting, "He had mentioned before we were married that he had never been able to make love to a woman who’d had a child."
Unfortunately, instead of tackling their marital issues, Elvis and Priscilla went rogue.
55. He Was Unfaithful
Elvis had always been an unfaithful lover. So it's no surprise that he dilly-dallied with other women the entire time he was with Priscilla. Even though the couple eventually overcame their dry spell, he never seemed to satisfy her. She wanted something more out of her love life, and so, in an incredible tit-for-tat, Priscilla went behind Elvis's back and conducted an affair of her own.
56. He Couldn't Please her
While Elvis was busy with his own mistresses, Priscilla dipped her toes in the waters of infidelity and had a wee tryst with a dance school owner. Then, despite having renewed her vows in Hawaii, she began a full-blown affair with her karate teacher. She had finally seen the light, and in recognizing that Elvis was an awful husband, there was only one thing left to do.
57. He Wanted Revenge
Priscilla later reminisced on her marriage saying "His life was my life." He consumed her in every way, and it destroyed them. Finally, in 1972, she confronted Elvis and told him that she wanted a divorce. He subsequently found out about her affair, and completely lost it. In the heat of the moment, the drama-king wanted to hire a hitman to take out her lover.
In the end, Elvis and Priscilla's failed marriage had one more tear left to shed.
58. He Still Loved her
Perhaps the most heartbreaking part of all was that, despite their problems, both of them loved each other very much. Unfortunately, because Elvis had kept Priscilla in a strict bubble from a young age, she felt like she needed to escape to better understand the world. To express his anguish, Elvis Presley laid bare his vulnerable side, channeling all of his heartbreak and anguish into song.
59. He Wore His Heart On His Sleeve
Elvis's hit breakup number "Always on My Mind" is his best-known song about Priscilla. However, those who aren't devoted Elvis fans are less aware of his other moving ballad "Separate Ways"—considerably less popular but just as moving. Sadder still? The song details the breakup's effect on his daughter, Lisa Marie. But as heartwrenching as losing Priscilla was, Elvis had another serious problem on his hands.
60. He Was An Addict
By the time that Elvis's divorce finally went through in 1973, his health was in serious trouble. Years of excessive drug use had taken its toll, and his body just couldn't take it anymore. That same year, he had two terrifying barbiturate overdoses, the first overdose leaving him comatose for three days. But even as he fell deeper into the spiral of addiction, his comeback demanded his presence at all times—and more often than not—it wasn't a pretty sight.
61. He Worked Through The Pain
1973 not only saw Elvis through a worrisome close call, but it also boasted his busiest professional year yet. He performed 168 times, and the following year, he signed up for yet another round of brutal touring. His failing health scared his bandmates. The Elvis they had once known was fading before their very eyes. He was always high, and with his muddled speech and growing girth, his friends wondered whether he'd actually be able to finish the tour.
62. He Was Unwaveringly Prideful
When Elvis's limousine pulled up to the University of Maryland for a concert, he embarrassingly toppled out of the limousine and onto the ground. But Elvis still had his pride, and when onlookers rushed to his aid, he held up a hand. He didn't want anybody's help, and he certainly didn't want anybody's pity. Unfortunately, he didn't fare any better throughout the performance.
63. He Made His Guitarist Cry
Elvis hung onto his microphone for dear life and fumbled his way through the entire set. There was no denying it. Elvis was a sorry sight to behold. In fact, his ravaged appearance made his guitarist, John Wilkinson, break down in tears. Wilkinson so desperately wanted his boss to take a rest from touring, but Elvis refused to back down, reassuring him with a light pat on the back—"It'll be all right. Don't you worry about it." The King couldn't be more wrong.
64. He Couldn't Stop Eating
On top of all the drugs, Elvis Presley had another disturbing habit. He loved to gorge himself on food, and the dishes he gravitated toward were heart-stoppingly rich. His chef at Graceland, Mary Jenkins Langston, catered to the King's interesting requests. He often enjoyed peanut butter, banana, and bacon sandwiches prepared in a pan filled with sizzling butter.
But for the King, that was probably just an appetizer.
65. He Had A Disturbing Diet
Coming from nothing, Elvis never took a hearty meal for granted. Famously, he loved a sandwich dubbed "Fool's Gold." My heart hurts just thinking about this recipe: A hollowed-out loaf of bread filled with a jar of peanut bar, a jar of jelly, and one whole pound of bacon. This doozy of a sammy rounds out to about 8,000 calories.
With a diet perfectly tailored to destroy a human body, Elvis's lethal combo of addiction and binge-eating was a disaster waiting to happen.
66. He Rebounded Hard
After his chapter with Priscilla came to a close, Elvis dove straight into another serious relationship—one that lasted four years. Her name was Linda Thompson—a lyricist and actress that went on to marry other notable stars like Caitlin Jenner and David Foster. However, as much as Elvis hit it off with Linda, the memory of Priscilla still haunted him.
67. He Was A Needy Mess
In her memoir, Linda Thompson paints a picture of Elvis still reeling from his failed marriage. He required constant reassurance and had a childish, "needy" disposition. Because Linda knew all the ins and outs of Elvis's past relationships and affairs, she, too, wanted to share her romantic history. However, talking to Elvis about other men? Big mistake.
68. His Jealousy Reigned Supreme
Jealousy was one of the major reasons Elvis's marriage imploded and knowing himself, he had no plans to change that anytime soon. As soon as Linda started to tell him about other men, he stopped her in her tracks and responded with utter vehemence: “I don’t want to know anything about it. I’m a really jealous motherf*cker...I want to know you're mine and all mine.” Not cool Elvis. Not cool.
Elvis was toxic and possessive. But even more? He had a history of physical aggression.
69. He Had A Vicious Temper
According to singer Buzz Cason, Elvis's temper flared intensely while spending some time with Christina Crawford, Joan Crawford's adopted daughter. They were curled up on the couch together watching TV and Christina kept trying to get his attention by tickling him. But the teasing turned sour the second she threw her cocktail in Elvis's face...
70. He Threw Her Out
Elvis was livid. Drenched in her cocktail, he sprang from his seat, grabbed Christina by the hair, and proceeded to drag her toward the front door, screaming,"Get this b*tch out of here!" But this wasn't an isolated incident. In her memoir, Priscilla Presley related something equally as horrifying. After she told Elvis about her affair, his response was disturbing—it's unforgettable.
71. He Forced Himself On Her
When Elvis found out about Priscilla's infidelity, he lunged at her and forced her into submission. She remembers him saying, "This is how a real man makes love to his woman." Later, she changed her story, saying that she'd exaggerated the details, but the damage was already done. Nearing the end of his life, Elvis had one last partner—Ginger Alden—and not even she could escape Elvis's wrath.
72. He Was Volatile
As Elvis's addictions spiraled out of control, his behavior became increasingly unruly. Ginger remembers a few startling occasions where Elvis went too far. One day, she refused to get him more yogurt in an effort to curb his binge-eating. That same night, after they went to bed, Ginger awoke to the sound of an ear-splitting shot ringing through the air.
73. He Shot At Her
Elvis had whipped out a 57 magnum pistol and fired it, the bullet lodging itself just north of their headboard. He called this "an attention getter." But that wasn't all. Ginger also remembers him shooting one of their televisions, as well as the time he ran outside waving an automatic firearm around because he'd seen a boy chasing little Lisa Marie.
As despicable as his behavior was, Elvis kept a pistol on him for one terrifying reason.
74. He Needed To Protect Himself
Though he sometimes didn’t know it, Presley’s life was often in grave danger, and people constantly threatened him while he was on stage. During one performance, attackers even claimed they would murder him unless he paid them $50,000. The next time Presley performed, he had a Derringer in his right boot and a hidden pistol at his waist.
Elvis didn't want anybody to get famous for taking out the King.
75. He Sweat Through His Costume
By the time 1977 rolled around, Elvis had officially gone off the rails. Journalist Tony Scherman didn't hold back when critiquing the ailing star: "Presley had become a grotesque caricature of his sleek, energetic former self." He was so ill and inebriated that his concerts became painful to watch: The songs were unintelligible because of his garbled singing.
By the end of his concerts, Elvis looked as though he'd run a marathon: Performing was so taxing on his body that he'd leave the stage soaked in sweat.
76. He Suffered A Terrible Betrayal
Right before the end, Elvis faced another heartwrenching blow. He'd fired three bodyguards the previous year, but this eventually came around to haunt him. They conspired to write a tell-all about their former employer, revealing his longtime relationship with drugs. The book was called Elvis: What Happened? and when the star found out about it—he was horrified.
77. He Faced A Ruined Reputation
You see, although many might have suspected Elvis's vices, the public never acknowledged his drug use. It was always kept hush-hush. He tried to pay the publisher to cancel the project but to no avail. As such, he began to feel his reputation slipping through his fingers. To make matters worse, by this time, his health was in tatters. He had an enlarged colon, liver damage, glaucoma, and hypertension.
Even so, Elvis never thought the end would come as soon as it did.
78. He Expired On The Toilet
On Tuesday, August 16, 1977, Ginger Alden made a devastating discovery: She found Elvis unresponsive on the floor of the bathroom, his pajamas bunched up around his feet. He had fallen off the toilet, still curled into a seated position. It was clear, even then, that he had already passed. All attempts to revive the fallen King failed, and he was pronounced dead at the hospital at 3:30 pm.
Still, after the news broke, the main question on everybody's mind was: How did this happen?
79. He Remains A Mystery
Decades after his demise, we still have no clear idea how Elvis passed. The official cause of his demise was cardiac arrest, but a cocktail of drugs in his system probably didn’t help. However, Presley did also have an enlarged heart, a codeine allergy, and several other known health issues and bad eating habits. As one forensic expert put it, “He was difficult to diagnose; it was a judgment call.”
However, some theories that circle his passing are completely out there.
80. His Passing Sparked A Conspiracy
The mysteries behind Elvis’s end have also led to a conspiracy theory that he faked his own passing so that he could live out the rest of his life in peace. Believers of this theory point to discrepancies in his death certificate as well as to the reports that there was a wax dummy in the coffin during his burial. But Elvis's personal physician had another iffy theory.
81. He Suffered From Chronic Constipation
Dr. George Nichopolous had a particularly embarrassing theory behind the legend's passing. He pointed to chronic constipation as a possible answer: "...at the autopsy we found stool in his colon which had been there for four or five months because of the poor motility of the bowel.” Where the average colon is four to five feet long, Elvis's was a staggering eight to nine feet. Ouch.
However, despite the sensation and conspiracy surrounding his untimely passing, one sad fact remained...At only 42 years old, an absolute icon had left the building.
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82. Not Everyone Loved Him
In response to this tragedy, President Jimmy Carter released a touching statement regarding Elvis's contributions: he "permanently changed the face of American popular culture." Unfortunately, not everybody had the same amount of respect for the singer, and his passing sparked another string of tragedies. On the day of Elvis's funeral, a group of grieving fans crowded around the gates leading to Graceland.
Out of nowhere, a car hurtled straight through the group, running over and fatally wounding two innocent women. Sadly, this demented driver wasn't the only one to throw punches at the deceased star.
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83. He Was A Money Grab
Some of the people closest to Elvis thought they could make a buck off of his passing. His cousin Billy Mann decided to take a covert picture of Elvis in his coffin and then sold it to the National Enquirer for $18,000. Additionally, his girlfriend Ginger Alden tried to sell her story for a whopping $105, 000, eventually settling for less. In the end, Elvis didn't give her a single cent.
But in the midst of all of this money-grabbing, there was one woman who felt the loss of Elvis more deeply than anyone else.
84. He Never Left Her
When Priscilla Presley found out about Elvis's passing, it broke her. In her memoir, she remembers locking herself in her room as the waves of hopelessness crashed over her. She wrote, "I wanted to die. Love is very deceiving. Though we were divorced, Elvis was still an essential part of my life. Over the last years, we’d become good friends, admitting the mistakes we’d made in the past and just beginning to laugh at our shortcomings.”
Despite the fact that Elvis and Priscilla's life together was arguably messed up, his only wife continues to speak about him with undying reverence and adoration. Sigh.
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