February 22, 2024 | Scott Mazza

Best Friends To Enemies


BFFs don’t always last forever, and even the best of friendships can end in the worst ways. From unpaid debts to spreading gossip, these people share the most memorable and infuriating reasons why they broke off a friendship.


1. Wild Support Payments

I lost close to $5,000 to a friend. He was going through a bad breakup and needed to pay child support. He told me that the first child support payment had gone out of his account without him expecting it and he had nothing to cover his expenses and rent for the month.

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I loaned him a total of $5,000 over about three weeks, and this was also when my wife and I were planning our wedding so we had a heap of expenses, but a bro needed help and that was a priority. Later, I found out the dark truth about him.

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Some mutual friends confessed to me that he’d used the money on living large and a few big weekends out with girls. I confronted him, he told me he couldn’t pay, then started ducking me. I moved away after I got married and he ended up no longer speaking to our group of friends once they all found out about it.

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Ten years of friendship, gone.

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2. Son Of A…

I went on a mini-vacation, which was supposed to be four days, with my best friend in 2021 to New Jersey. She brought her then-eight-year-old son, and I brought my then-four-year-old daughter. The whole thing ended up being a HUGE mistake.

Her son was so disrespectful, dropped curse words, had a nasty attitude, and was so mean to my daughter the entire trip.

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The last straw was on the morning of the third day when he ripped a box of cereal out of my daughter's hand. She started crying and he smacked her across her head. 

I tried disciplining him and my friend blew up at me and proceeded to DEFEND her son, as she called my daughter a "whiny baby". We started arguing, I packed our bags and said we were leaving.

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I drove four hours home without saying a single word to her or her son. 

Got to her house, threw her bags on her front lawn, and peeled out of her driveway.

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3. Jurassic Snark

I cut ties with my friend due to lots of little things that eventually became too much.

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For example, 7-8 years ago, he bought 15 tickets for a midnight premiere of Jurassic World for our entire friends group to attend. The day of the show, he texted me with disappointing news. He said that he forgot to buy "my" ticket, so I couldn't go. 

Of the 15 he bought, how did he decide it was "my" ticket that he didn't buy? Well, it turns out, he gave my ticket to a girl he met the week prior so he could take her instead.

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That was just one of many things. It's all truly minor stuff like that, but when you have 100 minor things, it becomes clear that they aren't actually your friend anymore.

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4. Two In One

My mom’s friend had a son that was 3-4 years younger than me so we became friends by default. Honestly, I just tolerated him because was a foul-mouthed little instigator whose mom let him get away with everything and never disciplined him—but then he went too far. 

One summer day we had all just gotten back from going somewhere, I had gotten myself in trouble with Mom and was given a time out on the front porch while our moms went inside.

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He proceeded to get my toy cars out, and while I’m sitting there he starts throwing them at me and calling me names with every throw. 

I’d had enough of being pelted and threw one back. And he screamed his head off and started bawling.

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But I wasn’t the only one who lost a friend that day. His mom came out of the house, scooped him up, yelled at me, and took off in her car. My mom asked me what happened and I told her. 

She didn’t blame me for not taking it, and called up his mom to explain everything. She wouldn’t hear it, hung up on my mom and that was it.

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5. A Friendly B&E

It was my last year in a country I previously lived in and at the time it was during summer vacation which we normally spend in our home country.

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We had to cut our vacation short because we got a phone call telling us that our house had gotten broken into and robbed. 

We came back on that day and my friend was talking to me, telling me he saw the authorities by our house and he hopes everything is OK.

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It was horrible. There was stuff stolen, furniture destroyed, closets torn down, and fully emptied. My family decided to accelerate the move from that country and that was that. 

A year later, my friend sent me a truly disturbing email. In it, he explained how sorry he was and that he was responsible for it, that his friends were the perpetrators, and that he knew who did it but didn’t want to expose them. When we showed the email to the authorities and they questioned him, it turned out he was part of that group as well.

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6. DU Why?

My friend got caught for drinking while driving my car and then lied about it and lied about why my car was towed—but he didn’t stop there. He also lied about losing his license. Suddenly, he just wanted to walk everywhere for the exercise. He lied to my friends and told them it was my fault because my registration had lapsed.

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And when I finally confronted him about it…he kept lying.

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7. Neutralize The Threat

My friend’s girlfriend got mad at him for being at my birthday party. He was my best buddy ever since second grade, my parents and even my grandparents adored him. The day after my birthday, I got a shocking phone call from him

I could hear her voice in the background, he was so loud telling me to delete all the photos we took on my birthday and cut ties with him.

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She made him block me everywhere and I was sad for some weeks. I'm still tearing up typing this. I was the first one he opened up about his relationship with. 

I used to ask how she is every time I saw or called him. I tried to be friends with her but she didn't care.

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The thing is that he has other female best friends too—but she has a problem with me. And we don't even see each other often after graduating because of the distance, and don't text or call often because of our studies. 

It was after months I got to see him on my birthday.

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I miss him but I have to respect their relationship.

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8. Ultimate Betrayal

My friend was telling my girlfriend at the time she should break up with me—but that’s not the most twisted part. This was happening a few weeks after my mother’s passing and I was still dealing with the grief. He successfully managed to talk her into dumping me, only for me to find out they'd been sleeping with each other a week beforehand.

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To add insult to injury, he didn't even have the courage to tell me to my face, I had to find out from a mutual friend. I'm so happy I never saw him again.

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9. She Wanted A Maid, Not A Bridesmaid

My friend told me I was her best friend, so I was stunned when she announced who was in her wedding party.

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..NOT ME. Even though she hadn't asked me to a bridesmaid, she continued to ask me for wedding styling advice for her bridesmaids. It all stung but I got over it.

She then told me she needed me at her bachelorette and I was helping her brainstorm ideas.

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We talked daily. One morning we talked like normal and that evening I saw posts of her on her bachelorette. We’d been best friends since high school, but she had a girl she’d only known for six months on the trip with her. 

Her response when I asked about it?

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“Oh someone surprised me with it, sorry you’re upset”. I blocked her and haven’t looked back—and I’ve been a bridesmaid for better friends multiple times since.

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10.I Hate Your Husband

My best friend and I had known each other since high school. Back then, we bonded over our shared love of trashy television and how our parents just didn’t understand us. After we graduated and went on to different colleges, we remained close.

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We went dancing, we helped each other through our classes, we held each others’ hands and agreed that yes, all men DO suck, as we went through the usual late teens/early twenties break-up fiascos. The day came when she thought that she had met THE guy.

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He was lovely, he treated her well, they seemed really suited to each other. And I was genuinely delighted for her—she was my best friend, and I wanted her to be happy. A year or so later, I met my THE guy as well—and that's when our relationship began to take a dark turn.

Instead of being happy for me, she was always comparing her relationship with mine, insinuating that hers was somehow better.

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She looked for ways to pick my boyfriend apart and put him down. Whenever we all spent time together, she was incredibly rude to him.

Her relationship with her partner fell apart around the same time that my boyfriend proposed. I was very apprehensive about telling her that I had gotten engaged.

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I knew she was hurting, and I didn’t want to make things worse. However, I also didn’t want her to find out about my engagement from Facebook before she heard it from me. 

When I finally told her, her response was, “Well, where does this leave me? You better not go off and have kids and leave me alone now," said in a half-joking-but-not-really-joking kind of way. Despite her being my maid of honor, she ended up bailing on my wedding a week before the date.

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That stung, not going to lie, but I looked past it because she was still mourning the loss of her own relationship.
That was two years ago. After that, she never asked me about my husband and was incredibly negative whenever I brought up the subject of he and I having children.

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I forgave her, and explained away her behavior countless times. But two months ago, I finally reached my limit with her. I was shocked when she told me that she hates my husband and wishes I had never married him. When I asked her why, she had no answer beyond “it was more fun when you were single”. 

My heart broke in that moment, but it also hardened against her.

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We haven’t spoken since, and I haven’t wanted to. Our “break up” wasn’t as dramatic as other stories I've heard but it was painful, as she was a huge part of my life for 15 years. I thought we would be friends forever.

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11. Nice Knowing You

My best friend got a girlfriend, so he had less time for me.

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After a few years, I got home and they completely blindsided me. I saw them moving stuff out. We lived in the same apartment, but a different floor. They never said anything to me at all, no hint. They just left, not even a card or an invitation.

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That was the end of the friendship.

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12. Office Space

My best friend since high school chose her Microsoft coworkers from five years ago to be her bridesmaids over her actual best friends. We had always talked about how I would be in her wedding party, and of course, she had been in mine.

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I was hurt and confused. 

I messaged her on Instagram asking what I did wrong a few months before the wedding. But then I changed my mind and immediately unsent the message. The aftermath was brutal.  She saw the message pre-delete and then proceeded to ignore me and be totally rude to me at the wedding.

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She pretended I didn’t exist. She didn’t invite me to the pre-wedding hike. 

Her other best friends didn’t know who the heck her bridesmaids were either and came up to me and said they were shocked I wasn’t in the wedding party. She came up to me crying at the after-party, buried her head in my shoulders, and told me how sorry she was and that she loves me.

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She thought I didn't like her fiancée. 

I never expressed such a thing. Apparently, that’s why none of her best friends were included. And these random Microsoft people? She thought they “worked well as a team”. Somebody who can be that cold to their closest friends is not somebody worth keeping around.

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I still talk to her a ton because we have a lot in common and there’s obviously a lot that I like about her. But I’ll never come to her with real things again, and our actual deep friendship is over.

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13. Best Man To Worst Man

My friend was seeing a woman and moved in with her.

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We'd hang out when we went there to visit and everything was fine, but he would come to our city and visit and would cheat on her. He kept claiming everything was on the up and the girl he was in a relationship with was fine with that.

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Well, at some point my wife friended her on Facebook and my friend lost his mind over it. He was saying my wife was meddling in their relationship, etc. But here's the thing, if everything was on the up, why would that have bothered him? Clearly, he had been lying to us.

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And a shame because the girl he was seeing was so sweet.

After that, I knew what we had to do. We had to cut ties because it was just so hard to watch him mistreat someone. We were the best men in each other's weddings and all, but he changed after his divorce.

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He treated people around him terribly. Our friendship of about 20 years ended just like that.

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14. Just Own Up

I loaned my friend $250,000 to pursue his real estate dream and six months later, my worst nightmare came true. He ghosted me. He ignored about 50 emails/texts/calls/postcards and two certified letters.

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Infuriating!! He also stopped paying real estate taxes on it without telling me. 

I lived across the country, so it was extremely hard to manage the resolution. I eventually got all the money back but no help from him. I think we could have still been fine if he had kept communicating, and acknowledged the errors.

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We finally talked—but what he said on the call broke my heart. 

We were trying to patch things up, but he admitted only to the taxes part, not to all the other stuff. I had known him since college, like 30 years. Sheesh.

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15. Friendus Disappearus

My 16-year-old sister got me tickets to the Harry Potter exhibit in New York City when I was 13.

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She spent her own money on it for two tickets. Me and her. 

Well, my best friend found out and threw a fit at her mother that “She should be going because she is a bigger fan” and the mother massaged my sister to tell her to give her ticket to her daughter because “It’s the right thing to do”. My sister had the perfect response.

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She told her to get lost.

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16. Not-So-Sober Companions

I cut off my friends when I realized that all we had in common was binge drinking. They offered no support when it came to my attempts to cut back. Instead, they got irritated when I didn’t want to go to the bars. I kept saying no and explaining I wanted to avoid situations with drinking—but one guy was so much worse than the others.

He told me that I couldn’t be part of “our” friend group if you don’t like going out drinking as some sort of intimidation tactic.

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17. No More Free Therapy

I didn't realize that slowly, over 20 years, my friend had basically turned me into her own personal therapist.

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Every single day, almost 24/7, she'd be calling and texting, expecting me to sort out every single one of her problems, and validate her hurtful behavior.

Then one day at the end of last year, I got into an accident that left me hospitalized. Whilst I was mostly fine functionally, I had a lot of scarring and was told that I might need skin graft surgery later down the line, depending on how it healed.

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My best friend's reaction was horrifying. 

We'd been close since the age of 11, and yet, she didn't even ask how I was. Not once, not for two whole months. The only time she acknowledged that I was even injured was when she said, "That's a bad way to start the morning" when I told her that I was in emergency. She just.

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..didn't care.

And once I realized that, walking away was easy. I haven't missed her at all, the best decision I ever made.

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18. Dear John…

I had a friend that was with me since we were three years old. Let’s call him “John”. About ten years after we met, we were going to this youth camp together.

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I’m so excited that John’s coming with me. But he seems…different. There’s another friend coming along with him, and now John is constantly avoiding me. 

This went on for about a day at the camp…before the avoidance turned into being nasty. He was constantly insulting me.

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At some point, I had a panic attack at the camp—not related to John being awful and all—and here’s how our conversation went, with a few other friends watching:

John: “So where even were you last night?? You weren’t at the dorm”.

Me:

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“I had a panic attack, so I was told to sleep somewhere else. I dunno why..".

John: “Oh, so you have mental issues. Haha”.

Later, as I was playing with another friend that I had met at the camp, John came over to me with his other friend.

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The new friend that I was playing with said: “Oh, are you one of his friends too, John"? John’s answer was devastating. 

He said: “Nah, he thinks we’re friends but I’m just forced to watch him all the time”.

That was the last straw.

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I was done talking to him from that point on. But then, weeks later, I received a call from John. I picked up, and he was just talking to me as if he had never been mean to me. Ever. He was just talking about some random stuff about Minecraft. I just mumbled some “okays" and went on with my day, confused.

I decided to call him later, and I confronted him about what happened at the camp.

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He said he never said any of those things. I said I’m pretty sure he did. He said: “I was just kidding about the mental issues thing”. He denied that he ever said the stuff about not being my friend though.

Throughout the entire call, he never apologized.

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And the worst part is, I almost believed him. I almost thought that I was just imagining it, and that maybe John was a good friend after all. Keep in mind I wasn’t very mature yet, despite my age. So I just…sort of…continued thinking of him as a friend. But as I did mature, I just started cutting contact with him, and we never spoke again.

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19. Brunch Is On You

There was a lot that led up to it, but the straw that broke the camel’s back was a trip where I went out and visited her after a year of her guilting me for not coming. I was a classroom teacher, so paid time off during the school year was hard.

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I was also working on my MA thesis.

When I arrived, she left me at the airport for five hours because she decided it was a good time to break up with her boyfriend. Nothing big had happened, she just wasn’t feeling it and wanted to do it when I would be there for support. That was the first red flag—but there were more. 

The next morning she took me out for an EXPENSIVE brunch where she drank a whole bunch.

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When it came time to pay she’d forgotten her wallet. The next day was a Monday. She was also a classroom teacher and wanted me to visit her school. 

I told her I could, but asked if she could take me to a coffee shop on my lunch break because I needed to work on my thesis.

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She did but told me not to go anywhere cause it wasn’t a good area. She said she’d pick me up at 3:00. At 3:30 I tried calling and she didn’t answer. She ended up finally coming at 5:00, saying she’d had a phone interview for a new job.

She asked me to take a cab (this was before Uber) that evening to get to the airport because my flight (which left at 9:

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00) was too late and she’d be tired for work. I also had to work the next day.

I didn’t hear from her for six months until she came back to town and texted, “Hey! This is your estranged best friend. Maybe we could reunite and you could pick me up from the airport and we could get lunch”? This airport was an hour away, in the middle of the school day.

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I told her no.

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20. Wake Up, Sheeple

My friend went DEEP down the conspiracy theory rabbit hole—and sadly, I just couldn't follow him. I’m talking flat earth, Columbine false flags, Lizard People, and 2012. Obviously today, he’s on the “the vaccinations are going to end us all”.

If it was just an interest of his he liked to talk about, I’d be fine with it. But it was a thing where he couldn’t stop talking about it and berated anyone who disagreed with him. He turned into a complete weirdo.

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21. Food Fight

My best friend in high school started hanging out with the wrong crowd. I distanced myself from her and she started trying to spread false rumors about me because she was mad.

One day at lunch in the cafeteria, she came up behind me, picked up my tray—that had fries, nuggets, and two big puddles of ketchup and BBQ sauce—and smacked me across the face with it. Well, I wasn’t about to let her get away with it. 

I immediately got up and set up in a fighting stance.

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She tried to lunge at me, so I did what any normal petite girl would have done…I side-kicked her so hard in her abdomen that she fell back and got laid out on a lunch table.

Thank goodness I had endured years of fighting my older brother and male cousins.

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Anyway, years later I ran into her. She had taken up boxing.

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22. Time To Socially Distance

The pandemic ruined my friendship. I have been friends with her since I was in diapers but I am also disabled and highly at risk of dying. She drank the Kool-Aid. I never would have thought it, but it changed her personality entirely.

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The last straw was when she kept saying only people with pre-existing conditions would pass so the rest of society should continue on as usual. Except I’m one of those people that would lose their lives, soooo...

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23. Time To Cut Ties

My old Navy buddy got into some trouble involving a girl.

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He got detained and falsely charged. It was a MESS. The girl lied to the authorities about the whole thing. He was so depressed about it that he tried to hang himself with the bedsheets in cell after his initial arrest. Then he spent years trying to clear his name.

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During that time the girl was in and out of rehab and had been caught lying multiple times. Nothing went his way and I was nothing but supportive toward him. Then he started lashing out at me regularly. I would try to joke around with him like we used to and he would accuse me of talking down to him or trying to mess his life up when all I would ever do is be an ear for him to vent to.

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I would listen to all of his problems and frustrations, and basically, whenever I would have any type of input he would immediately take it the wrong way and lash out. Eventually, I'd reach the end of my rope—and I just snapped and called him an "unbelievable idiot".

He immediately shut me out of his life and probably to this day still thinks I was the bad guy.

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I still never understood what I did, I think he was just using me as an emotional punching bag. He was my best friend for 10 years and seeing him so broken was incredibly heartbreaking.

Luckily he’s a lot better now and we talk from time to time but not in any way like before. We might as well just be casual acquaintances who barely know each other now.

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Maybe it’s for the best because I couldn't imagine ever treating a close friend the way he treated me. A good life lesson I guess, sometimes you just need to cut nasty people out of your life.

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24. No Good Deed Goes Unpunished

There was one guy I was good friends with back in middle school.

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Everyone in the school hated him and I was scared for his mental health back then, so I decided to become friends with him, not wanting to see him take his own life. He eventually moved away but we were still on good terms—but then he took a dark turn. 

Cut to a few years later and he’s now big into politics, claiming things about Latinos and religion—both groups of which I am a part of—that are hateful and just flat-out untrue. Needless to say, I cut all ties with him.

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I can’t believe this is what I get for sacrificing my social life for him.

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25. Just Married

My friend no-showed to my wedding. We had been drifting apart already for a few years due to work and other life things getting in the way. But I made an effort to still invite him because he had been an important part of my life and helped me through some hard times.

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He never responded to the RSVP. 

I called him up to see if he had lost it, gave him the date, and told him I was excited to see him there and celebrate. But I was in for an even bigger shock. He didn’t show up, didn’t even send a text or call with a reason, and never even offered a single congratulations.

He instead messaged me a few weeks after with the audacity to ask if I wanted to take some photos of his dad’s car that he was trying to sell. When I confronted him and told him how disappointed I was, he gave some nonsense about how we’ll always be friends no matter what. No bro.

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Not cool. Actions speak louder than words.

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26. The Final Straw

She was always terrible, nasty, and mean when she drank too much. The first strike was at a concert where she got tipsy and kept shouting at me, "Why are you broken"?! and pushed me down some stairs. I broke my foot.

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I also have bipolar disorder, and she had been there to see the highs and lows, but she always accused me of faking. 

The final straw was at her hen party, which I organized and paid for. While my son was in the hospital, she got woozy and pushed me into a wall screaming that I was ruining her day and life.

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I got right out of there and left her ranting and raging by herself. But that wasn't even the cherry on top.

A few months after the wedding, I found out they were getting divorced because she lost her mind and hit her husband. The woman has problems and refuses to get help.

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I don't need that.

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27. Stuck In The Past

My friend’s now-boyfriend and I hooked up once in 2018. I talked with him and told him I wasn't interested in that happening again. He starts dating my friend in 2020 and it's a volatile relationship. I guess my name gets brought up when they are fighting and he bragged to her about hooking up with me.

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Her reaction was devastating. 

She blocked me off everything and I was left wondering what had happened until someone else told me. Oh well. She really could have talked with me about it and I would have been happy to set her mind at ease.

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28. False Positive

My friend was a pure narcissist.

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She only ever talked about herself and never asked me a single question. She didn’t see any problem with hitting on/pursuing men in relationships but would lose her mind if a girl even looked at the guy she was with. But that was just the tip of the iceberg.

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She also faked a pregnancy to get a guy to commit to her. And last but not least, chewed me out for being nice to her new boyfriend—the first decent person she had ever dated—because she thought I was interested in him.

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29. Sleep On It

I was really good friends with a coworker of mine.

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That's how I met my significant other. We went on vacation together with one other couple at one point. For context, we went on vacation and my spouse and I had to sleep in a room with twin bunk beds while the other two couples got queen/king-sized rooms.

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We ended up resorting to sleeping on the pull out couch simply because there was more space. Before said vacation, me and her had spoken of this already, my spouse mainly being the unhappy one regarding the sleeping arrangements. We giggled about it mostly because I hardly cared and my spouse chilled out about it.

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It wasn’t an issue.

Maybe four years ago now, a few months after the vacation, I spent the 4th of July with my alleged "best friend" and everything went completely normal. We had fun, and things were great. I tried texting her a few days later and no response.

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Weird...I didn't work with her anymore because I had gotten a new job in the city I live in. 

I thought maybe she was just busy as she wasn't that great of a texter. Tried her again a day or two after that, but again, no response.

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Now I knew something was up. I reached out to her a half dozen more times after that and continuously asked her what was wrong or if she was even okay because maybe something terrible happened to her and I just didn't know.

She just completely ghosted me.

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I get a random text one evening from her—and what it said left me in shock. It was rather confrontational asking me about how my spouse and I weren't happy with our sleeping arrangements during the vacation we took together. 

I responded to her and said it wasn't something me and her hadn't already talked about and it wasn't that big of a deal.

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Never heard from her again. My spouse and her husband are childhood best friends. Cut to me seeing her for the first time four years later this past Thanksgiving. 

I was dreading the situation because she's rather confrontational, but we're adults, and I'm not afraid of her.

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I was almost thinking we would just hash it out as I have been genuinely confused this whole time why she's so upset and can't even offer me an explanation. She said zero words to me. Didn't even look in my direction.

I guess I may never know, and I've come to terms with that.

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There are just some people that are petty and can't communicate I guess.

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30. Some People Always Change

This is dumb but sometimes…people are dumb. We went to Vegas, dinner, and a show. After dinner, my dress felt tight so I wanted to change into more comfortable clothing—from a dress and heels to a sweater/jeans and flats. My best friend's reaction left a bad taste in my mouth.

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She was annoyed that I “always do this” and “didn’t show up for the night” by getting dressed to the nines. She didn’t speak to me or the rest of our friends for the entire night. Weeks later, she called to tell me we’re just different people and after 17 years we can’t be friends anymore.

All because I changed my outfit.

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Good riddance girlfriend!

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31. Heard It Through The Grapevine

My friend spread rumors that I took some of her things. She never confronted me over the supposed theft even though we were seeing each other daily and doing our normal friendship things. 

I didn't even know anything was going on until another friend, from a different friend group, overheard one of the stories and came to me to ask me what was up with that.

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That’s when I learned the deranged truth. 

It turns out she had been talking badly about me behind my back for a while so I ended up cutting ties. And that theft she had accused me of? It turns out it never happened. Her sister had recently moved out and had boxed up some things that belonged to her by accident.

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32. Jealousy Hates Company

My best friend from middle school stopped talking to me after I started becoming successful around 20 years old. I excitedly told him I finally landed a good job and he asked how much I was making so I told him, thinking he'd be happy for me. Nope.

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He went silent for a bit, got cold, and we ended the call shortly after. 

I called him sometime later and his girl answered and I could hear them arguing. I was so confused. She was saying, "Pick up the phone and talk to your friend," and stuff like that. Then click, the line went silent.

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That was the last time we ever spoke. I was ghosted by my best friend of like 8-9 years because he was jealous of my success.

He had a pretty rough life in a lot of ways, really struggled in school, and as he got older had a hard time adapting to women as they got more mature.

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Back in the day, immature girls couldn't get enough of him, but as they grew up they were less impressed with him. They had all already dated a guy like him and his game just wasn't up to snuff anymore. 

By that time I was already settling into a long-term relationship with a beautiful girl.

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Between that and not seeing any prospects for a more successful life, I guess he felt like I was rubbing it in his face.

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33. No-Flex Zone

For my friend, EVERYTHING was a flex on Facebook—how much money she'd made that day doing Instacart, her husband buying her a car, her full refrigerator, being able to stay at home and not work a 9 to 5 (she was also an occasional MLMer), her new RV, her spoiled tween son playing Xbox in the new RV, pictures of her plastic surgery, vacations, etc. 

Every conversation somehow, magically, turned the focus back to her, her life, her family, her possessions, and her struggles.

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Finally, I decided to say something. I called her out on it. She said it was because she had anxiety and depression issues, she and her husband didn't go to college, and she was afraid of being judged.

Her constant need for attention grossed me out and I wasn't interested anymore.

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34. A Short Fuse

I wouldn't necessarily say the guy was my best friend, but I'm pretty sure I was his best friend, if that makes sense. We met in middle school, and we had some common interests and some mutual friends. As we got older, he got a really bad Napoleon complex because he remained on the short side while the rest of us got taller.

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A lot of our mutual friends distanced themselves from him, I was the last holdout because I felt bad for him and because I'm too nice. His arrogance and anger issues peaked in eighth grade. In the span of two weeks: he broke up with his girlfriend, punched two girls in the face, got dodgeball banned in our Phys Ed class, tried to choke one of our school's soccer players, and then got beat up by a girl behind the school.

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When he started ranting about his woes to me, I had to be honest. I told him he was a tool. He disappeared the following week and I haven't seen him since.

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35. Bridezilla

I got pregnant; my due date was the month of her planned wedding. I said I'll try to be there but I couldn't be her maid of honor anymore.

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Her reply was unforgettable. She said: "I wish you would have waited".

This was after my first pregnancy ended as a miscarriage. Well, she ended up postponing her wedding anyway…

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36. Keeping Up With The Jones

I had to cut ties with my friend when she became an early Alex Jones convert. The sweet, wonderful person I knew turned into a paranoid nutjob.

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37. What A Gas

My former best friend needed a place to live during the summer and I let her move into my tiny room in my apartment. I told her beforehand that I needed her help to pay rent and she said that she could. So fast forward, she moves a ton of stuff in my room that is already full of my things, doesn't give me a single cent, and doesn't even show any gratitude.

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She constantly told me she had no money to pay rent while she would talk about how she went out every night spending $80+ on drinks. Anyway, we were supposed to move into another apartment together. She bails at the last minute and I have to find another one fast; being in college, everyone leases way ahead of time so it was really hard to find a place.

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I was mad but I shook it off. Big mistake. The next day, I needed a ride to the bus stop because I was taking the Greyhound home. This bus stop was literally 5-10 minutes from my apartment. She has the nerve to say "I only put enough gas in my car to get to work and back"...seriously?

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I packed her things up and kicked her out. Haven't talked to her since.

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38. Why So Shellfish?

I had to dump one of my oldest friends. Finally, the penny dropped, and I realized that he was some kind of sociopath, constantly taking advantage of me, talking down to me at any opportunity, causing problems for me for No reason, except that he could.

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That was a very difficult (and painful) thing to realize—and I think he never did realize that he did it, even when I told him about some of the crazy things he'd done to me.

One time, he ate all the food I'd cooked for us both to eat that evening, apologized, and then did exactly the same thing the following evening.

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He was also constantly borrowing small sums of money from me, not bothering to pay it back or keeping track of how much he'd borrowed—saying that was my responsibility.

He would also claim he "could throw me out on the street" whenever he wanted to, from the apartment I paid 50% of the rent for, to sleep on the sofa. This was when I finally gave up on him.

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He riled up a common friend because his ex had flirted with me; he was trying to split that friendship up.

Once, he called everyone who I'd invited to a dinner party, saying the party had changed location to another city.

Weirdest of all? He brought me a gift of a big frozen crab.

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I've never eaten shellfish, during all the years I've known him. He put it in my freezer box and didn't close the door properly, so I had a big pile of water in the kitchen the next day and had to throw away everything in the freezer.

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He also bricked my bank card PIN by entering the wrong code three times, saying he "thought it was his because they were similar". The card was at my apartment.

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39. I Thought You Knew

My "best" friend from high school spread rumors about me because he wanted my then-girlfriend. When I went off to college I kinda left him behind, not really thinking much about it—but it wasn’t over yet. 

Fast forward four years later, he storms into my apartment in a rage that I slept with his wife.

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Which is true, but I slept with her a year before they even met. After that incident, I knew our friendship was over. He pretty much just viewed our "friendship" as a competition of who can get the most women.

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40. Don’t Be Late

My friend took advantage of me and would sabotage me constantly.

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She would embarrass me or be rude to my other friends. I would put up with it because I felt bad for her. She had bad relationships with family, no boyfriend, etc. But that wasn't what ruined our friendship.

The straw that broke the camel's back was the time she chewed me out on the phone for being 10 minutes late and said—I kid you not—"You being late is the same level of disrespect as giving someone AIDS"! Yup.

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AIDS. The lateness wasn't even my fault, it was a designated driver I had arranged to take us to a bar. I wanted to cheer her up.

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41. Stop The Car

I met a really cool chick at university who was doing the same course as me. We hung out most weeks and did all kinds of cool stuff.

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We became good friends really quickly.

I lived with my two best friends, a gay couple, and decided to introduce them all to each other so we all went out one evening and had an amazing time. I ended up staying at her place that night.

The next morning she was driving me home and she decided to tell me that she didn't like my friends because they were gay and she was brought up as a Christian.

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In the same paragraph, she went on to tell me that she didn't like Asians, poor people, or people that went to public school. I got out of that car and I have never seen her or spoken to her again.

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42. Wore Out Their Welcome

My significant other and I bought a condo and invited our mutual friend to move in with us.

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He got a girlfriend right about the time when we bought the house. Now, we were good friends with this guy and hung out quite a bit.

So he starts dating this girl as we begin to tear apart and redo the entire townhouse. Peeling off wallpaper and sanding down every crack and cranny.

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My boyfriend and I are working our behinds off on this huge investment. We keep asking him to come and help us, since, you know, he'll be living here too. 

He shows up exactly twice in two months of non-stop work, and one of those times, he left an hour later "just to drop off some keys to her" and obviously never came back. They had been fighting the whole time he was with us and he was summoned elsewhere I guess.

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So that's pre-moving-in.

He moves in and the girlfriend is immediately there every night and most days. She has no job and no car, so he goes to work and she just sits around at our house. She just hangs out at our place all day, with her one-year-old.

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She eats our food. She uses our electronics. She never leaves. She contributes nothing and asks us to buy her milk for her baby.

Our roommate can contribute nothing for food or anything other than rent, because of his new little family that he is responsible for.

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Our friend defends this, saying her kid is his son now. They'd been dating for five months and the child was not his, but he referred to him as his son.

There's way more, but those are the basics. She once told me, as she was eating a meal that my boyfriend and I cooked with the food that we bought and kindly included them in, that she "forgets that food costs money". This is the person that basically lives rent-free in my home.

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She sat around all day and her kid ran around unsupervised. One very memorable time he picked up a blade that we were using to do a project. She didn't notice. God, I could go on for ages.

He, who was once an adamant atheist, is now wearing things that say, for example, "JESUS 4 LIFE"! That was hilarious.

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She was very religious.

Anyway, they went on vacation and were mad that we didn't pick them up at the airport last minute. The second they returned to the house, we argued—and what an argument it was—and then we sat them down and told them to get out. He is no longer friends with us.

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It felt awesome.

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43. Talk About Paranoid

For background there is me and my boyfriend Dan, and then my friend Tiff and her boyfriend Todd. Two couples, all friends.

When we first all started to go out I was really good friends with her, but as time went on I saw more and more that she was selfish and egotistical, she once complained that her parents bought her 24k gold diamond earrings for Christmas when she just wanted the money, and so on.

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There is a long list of faults with her.

We roll around to a friend’s 21st birthday about a year ago. Her boyfriend cannot go anywhere without her except for work. No lads night out, he can't even look at other women and you can tell it grates him if I mention that Danny was going away for the weekend without me, or we'll be rating the lovely drink providers of our local pubs.

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But that’s not the most ridiculous part.

At this party, Tiff drinks and gets paranoid that a girl, who is a friend of ours, at another table is talking about her and decides to demand that none of us talk to her anymore. 

At this point I've had enough of her nonsense, tell her “She's free to make HER boyfriend do whatever she likes and he can be dumb enough to follow it but she does not have the right to try and control MY partner, so she better shut up, sit down and stay away from me for good," and walked away.

I haven't said more than five words to her since, and only see her when Danny and Todd want to go to the pub.

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44. Request Denied

A couple of people in high school stopped speaking to me for going to the prom with a lesbian friend. They have tried to add me on Facebook since, which is hilarious since I haven't spoken to them since 1996.

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45. Friendship Is Magic

My friend was just like a brother to me; I'd never had that kind of relationship with someone before, especially since my direct family is quite dysfunctional.

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Ergo, I value my friends (the ones I have left) highly. This kid is about a year older than me, him being 17 now. We met at a meetup in our city and sort of hit things off from there.

After a long time of talking and relating, we decided that we were the best of friends and hung out as much as we possibly could.

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Due to distance, this was limited to each weekend. Our platonic relationship sort of pushed me to develop feelings for him—we were already acting like we were dating anyway, although it was just holding hands. 

He asked me one day if I liked him and I said yes, but I don't want a relationship because I'd just come out of an ugly one.

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But then it took an even stranger turn. He goes off his nut and starts going on about how he'd be cheating on his girlfriend in Japan…whom he doesn't have on Facebook, whom he talks to once a month at best, whom he had only brought up once and didn't even reference her as his significant other at the time. 

He said that if he continued to see me, now knowing my feelings, it would be wrong.

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He claimed that he was an honorable man and had morals, and would dislike it if his "girlfriend" was hanging out with a guy who had feelings for her…not even my farthest rationalization could convince him to see reason.

He deleted me, ceased all contact with me; lived each day after as if nothing had happened.

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It was, to say the least, one of the most painful things I've had happen to me. I still love him as a brother/close friend and I still miss him. This was in May.

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46. Escaping The Friendzone

This one friend I had in particular seemed to be giving me real signals.

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She was being really flirty, saying things verbally that were almost flat-out saying she wanted it, and touching me on more than one occasion. But then later, she would go on about how we are just friends.

All this happens, then I hear her talking about one of her other friends one night—a guy I also know. What she said made my blood run cold.

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She told the other girl: "Yeah he would love to get a piece of me but I'll never let him, I always make him think he has a chance though. When we go out to a club I will grind up against him and turn him on", and she was also encouraging the other girl to try and turn this dude on/tease him too.

Forget that.

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That guy isn't your toy, and neither am I. Being flirty is one thing, but purposely turning guys on just for your own ego trip is another. I haven't been friends with her since, and I don't regret it one bit.

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47. Best Friend, Worst Roommate

I moved in with my “best” friend, her horrid boyfriend, and her antisocial sister. The friend and I had been incredibly close throughout all school, but over six months that deteriorated.

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The boyfriend wouldn't let her go out unless he could come too. He was pedantic and argumentative for the sake of “winning” a fight.

The sister wouldn't let me invite people over (my boyfriend included) unless she knew about it a day or so in advance. She claimed she had a severe phobia of “outside” people. But the final straw was when their mother came to visit.

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She stayed with us for two weeks without anyone informing me in advance, who I knew yes, but had decided to tell me what to do (no drinking, etc) as if I were her child as well. At one point I remember the mother told me it was a bit too late and loud to have friends over.

The friendship fell apart, she would side with her sister and boyfriend.

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We became bitter, there was note writing on their part, and she put dirty dishes on my bed, etc, to the point I would avoid going home. They decided to move out without telling me. I had overheard them discussing movers. 

In the end, the girl and I sat down and decided it would be for the best.

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But my nightmare wasn’t over yet. The evening that she moved out there was a complication with money, my friend couldn't pay the movers. I decided out of respect for what we had, I'd loan the money and take it out of her share of the lease, along with the remainder of the bills, etc.

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In total, it was $600. She had government aid in paying the lease (which she knew about but hadn't informed me) and her share went back to the Department of Housing. I was unable to properly contact her again. I had been spat on constantly for six months and then when she was crying and begging I thought I was doing a good thing, only to have been ripped off by my “best friend” I had known since I was 10 years old.

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48. Snitches Get Stitches

I was 17 and my older girlfriend was staying with me while I had the house to myself.

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This friend was jealous and decided to tell my parents what we were doing. The aftermath was brutal. It resulted in a huge fight with my dad involving broken glass, screaming, lies and threats. I had to talk to the authorities and got threatened by them as well.

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My friend tried to claim she had nothing to do with it…but I knew it was her. I cut off all contact and haven't spoken to her in 10 years.

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49. Benign Tumor, Malignant Friend

I had a friend for maybe three years, she had originally been the girlfriend of one of my guy friends.

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I listened to all her tears and agony when they split up, all her depressing stories, and so on.

One day I went into the hospital for a biopsy, I was terrified I had cancer. I came home and looked at my phone—and what I saw made my blood run cold. It was full of texts from her about having a bad day, and a huge email about how she wanted her ex back.

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She didn't ask how I was, or how the tests went, all she wanted was someone to listen to her. That day I put her number on the block list, and blocked everything of hers online.

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50. Be Happy For Me

We had a great relationship, but when my life changed, hers didn’t. She became bitter.

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Whenever I told her good news, she would be sad for herself instead of happy for me. I had a miscarriage, and even though we weren’t trying for a baby, it was very emotional. 

When I told her about the miscarriage (after I could talk about it without crying), her reaction was truly upsetting. She said, "Thank God you weren’t pregnant. I would have cried if you were". Like, WHAT?

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? So, she would have been upset if I was pregnant because she wasn't? That’s when I decided I would not continue our relationship".

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51. Bye, Soul Sister

My former best friend and I were together 24/7 for like seven years. He was my soulmate but not in an intimate way, like a “soul sister”. He’s gay, so we would call each other sisters. 

We moved to a different city together and everything was great for a few months then he started asking for help for his portion of the rent—which I was okay with AT FIRST—but he would take longer and longer to get it back to me and eventually, I wouldn't receive it for months.

It was his first apartment but I had been living on my own for a while already, so I was used to the rent payments and utilities, but I guess he wasn’t. But he would still go out for drinks with friends.

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I finally confronted him about it and said that he can’t be spending money on these “luxuries” whenever he has debt to pay me. His reaction was chilling. He completely blew up on me.

One month after renewing our lease—I know, stupid of me—he told me that he wanted to live alone. Little did I know he was actually going to move in with another friend of his.

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He left very suddenly and when I tried contacting him about his part of the rent and utilities for the last month, he blocked me.

So I called up the friend he was now living with and he refused to speak with me. His new roommate said sorry, hung up, and blocked me too.

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I was stuck paying almost $3,000 by myself—thankfully I was good at saving money—and he still hasn’t paid me back any of it four years later. 

I’ve given up on getting my money—but I didn’t expect him to act the way he did when I saw him again. About a year ago, I was hanging out with friends from our hometown—they were mutual friends because we were always together—and he showed up randomly. 

It was a good evening but I knew in my head that I wasn't doing this again.

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He said it was just like “old times” and he missed me but I wasn't going to get caught up in that again. To this day, he sends me memories on Snapchat and says “We were so cute” and I just reply with a heart emoji and that’s it.

I would delete him off Snapchat but I don't want there to be any drama between my friends and him because he's definitely one to cause drama if something like that happens… and he likes to make people choose sides. I really don’t know how I didn’t see any of this when we were besties but I’m glad it’s over.

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52. Kissing Cousins

My BFF’s cousin tried to hit on me while I was visiting her—but that wasn't the worst part. The cousin was in a long-term, committed relationship at the time.

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I never saw or spoke to the cousin before or after the pass he made at me. He kissed me out of nowhere that one night.

My BFF called me a week later because the cousin dumped his girlfriend and asked my BFF if she could call me and connect us.

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She blamed me for ruining her cousin’s relationship and life. She was angry at me. We never spoke again.

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Sources: Reddit, Quora, Buzzfeed


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